Dealing With Rude People

w0rm · 28-04-2010, 01:46 PM

Ok, I consider myself a nice, well-mannered guy. But some times, when faced with these obnoxious, grumpy rude people I feel something stirring inside of me where I just want to scream a big: "Fuck you!"

Today I found myself in the position described above, whilst attending a Learn Direct centre where a member of the staff spoke to me like I was a worthless turd floating in the bowl of her toilet.

I won't go into detail about what was said, but I just laughed and shrugged her remark off. When I had escaped the cesspit of a place I had time to reflect on the situation and had a moment where I thought of things that I feel would've been adequate retorts; wishing I would have said them.

So, David Icke Forum, I ask you. How do you deal with these types of people? Is there a time and place for rudeness, or do you feel it's best to remain polite in such situations? Discuss!

oioioi · 28-04-2010, 01:49 PM

Lodge a complaint, let them sweat their 'position of power' that makes them feel relevant.

newworldengineer · 28-04-2010, 01:50 PM

I go into Zen mode under those circumstances, and whatever happens, happens

mr stoppitall · 28-04-2010, 01:51 PM

Destroy them with polite and precise vocabulary.

Depends if they really want some though, some people are rude by default and I guess we have to be lenient with such automatons.

lizzy · 28-04-2010, 01:52 PM

answer....."so what's your problem, please don't make it mine....g'morning, time for coffee .byeeeeeeee

"

edit.......and sorry u had that incident........it does seem to me that rudeness has now become some sort of badge of honesty or forthrightness.... v.sad really, hope your day goes much better now.

w0rm · 28-04-2010, 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by mr stoppitall

Destroy them with polite and precise vocabulary.

Depends if they really want some though, some people are rude by default and I guess we have to be lenient with such automatons.

This woman did seem like she was on some sort of power trip. I need to go back there next week so I'll see how she is then, if the problem persists expect my vernacular to be spectacular.

w0rm · 28-04-2010, 02:04 PM

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Originally Posted by lizzy

answer....."so what's your problem, please don't make it mine....g'morning, time for coffee .byeeeeeeee

"

edit.......and sorry u had that incident........it does seem to me that rudeness has now become some sort of badge of honesty or forthrightness.... v.sad really, hope your day goes much better now.

Haha, I really wish I would've said something along those lines.

nofuture · 28-04-2010, 02:06 PM

I've often thought of wearing a badge saying 'If murder was legal would you still be alive?...'

These psychic vampires drain you.

bobbydiva · 28-04-2010, 02:10 PM

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Originally Posted by nofuture

I've often thought of wearing a badge saying 'If murder was legal would you still be alive?...'

These psychic vampires drain you.

I think that's a great motto, if everybody acted as if murder was legal it would be a much nicer place. After pot maybe they should legalize murder. If everybody could murder, would anybody murder? Kinda like the nukes thing.

passing · 28-04-2010, 02:12 PM

It hasn't done me many favours but I like to be just informal or jovial or provocative enough to let them see that the absurdity of their pompous 'status' is visible.

curtaincat · 28-04-2010, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by w0rm

Ok, I consider myself a nice, well-mannered guy. But some times, when faced with these obnoxious, grumpy rude people I feel something stirring inside of me where I just want to scream a big: "Fuck you!"

Today I found myself in the position described above, whilst attending a Learn Direct centre where a member of the staff spoke to me like I was a worthless turd floating in the bowl of her toilet.

I won't go into detail about what was said, but I just laughed and shrugged her remark off. When I had escaped the cesspit of a place I had time to reflect on the situation and had a moment where I thought of things that I feel would've been adequate retorts; wishing I would have said them.

So, David Icke Forum, I ask you. How do you deal with these types of people? Is there a time and place for rudeness, or do you feel it's best to
remain polite in such situations? Discuss!

I gather Learn Direct is a job centre of sorts..?

All job centre's suck and most of the people who work there are turds. They talk extra-loud and judge u like they are some sort of f'ing god.

If it were not for the unemployed these creeps wouldn't even have a job, that is why they keep sending people on useless courses, cos if they found you a job, THEY would be out of work, and they know it.

Most of them are mini-hitlers. ( actually, they are so nasty, that is an insult to hitler).

I would complain over their heads about whatever they said or did., like oioioi said. i did that once, and the horrible woman got removed.

i tried 'polite' , i tried 'zen , but the thing to do is complain about this nasty person who gets off on her "power".

w0rm · 28-04-2010, 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by curtaincat

I gather Learn Direct is a job centre of sorts..?

All job centre's suck and most of the people who work there are turds. They talk extra-loud and judge u like they are some sort of f'ing god.

If it were not for the unemployed these creeps wouldn't even have a job, that is why they keep sending people on useless courses, cos if they found you a job, THEY would be out of work, and they know it.

Most of them are mini-hitlers. ( actually, they are so nasty, that is an insult to hitler).

I would complain over their heads about whatever they said or did., like oioioi said. i did that once, and the horrible woman got removed.

i tried 'polite' , i tried 'zen , but the thing to do is complain about this nasty person who gets off on her "power".

Yes, Learn Direct is a place that Job Centre sends you to after you've been unemployed for x-amount of months.

I wouldn't want to have her removed though, unless she's always like that. Perhaps she was just having a bad day, I'll give her the benefit of the doubt. For now.

curtaincat · 28-04-2010, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by w0rm

Yes, Learn Direct is a place that Job Centre sends you to after you've been unemployed for x-amount of months.

I wouldn't want to have her removed though, unless she's always like that. Perhaps she was just having a bad day, I'll give her the benefit of the doubt. For now.

Good luck w0rm, i have been there, quite likely worse than u, since u still have compassion, wait til u been dissed enuff like me, lol.

anyhow is that David Carradine in your avvy, cool avatar

but i can only be compassionate for so long, until i learn to kill the buddha on the road. it does work.

cheers, and pls tell me if my guess at your avatar is right

w0rm · 28-04-2010, 02:42 PM

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Originally Posted by curtaincat

Good luck w0rm, i have been there, quite likely worse than u, since u still have compassion, wait til u been dissed enuff like me, lol.

anyhow is that David Carradine in your avvy, cool avatar

but i can only be compassionate for so long, until i learn to kill the buddha on the road. it does work.

cheers, and pls tell me if my guess at your avatar is right

Yes, it's David Carradine.

curtaincat · 28-04-2010, 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by w0rm

Yes, it's David Carradine.

Yay, excellent avatar

meksar · 28-04-2010, 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by w0rm

Ok, I consider myself a nice, well-mannered guy. But some times, when faced with these obnoxious, grumpy rude people I feel something stirring inside of me where I just want to scream a big: "Fuck you!"

Today I found myself in the position described above, whilst attending a Learn Direct centre where a member of the staff spoke to me like I was a worthless turd floating in the bowl of her toilet.

I won't go into detail about what was said, but I just laughed and shrugged her remark off. When I had escaped the cesspit of a place I had time to reflect on the situation and had a moment where I thought of things that I feel would've been adequate retorts; wishing I would have said them.

So, David Icke Forum, I ask you. How do you deal with these types of people? Is there a time and place for rudeness, or do you feel it's best to remain polite in such situations? Discuss!

Its probably best to avoid confrontations and remain humble, if you do or say something it could be used against you. Just like the police because they have policed society into a control grid. It has become more like America over here with people being rude all the time and for no reason, being polite is the best way i think.

w0rm · 28-04-2010, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by meksar

Its probably best to avoid confrontations and remain humble, if you do or say something it could be used against you. Just like the police because they have policed society into a control grid. It has become more like America over here with people being rude all the time and for no reason, being polite is the best way i think.

But isn't that just giving these habitually rude people a free-pass to continue upsetting others?

meksar · 28-04-2010, 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by w0rm

But isn't that just giving these habitually rude people a free-pass to continue upsetting others?

Possibly but i do not think that the real solution is always to react to it, make a comment to the person saying they are out of order and even they shrug it off, they will think about later in the day as you are now.

curtaincat · 28-04-2010, 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by w0rm

But isn't that just giving these habitually rude people a free-pass to continue upsetting others?

True! what would be a good idea, is to look at lots of video's by Charlie Vietch,, not sure how to spell his name.

He is on youtube. you can find him easily.. Watch his lovely huggy vids, you will find Excellent Advice ... i would do things his way, if i were you.

maybe you should give the bitch a hug, lol. charlie is worth watching.. just in case you forgot.

curtaincat · 28-04-2010, 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by meksar

Possibly but i do not think that the real solution is always to react to it, make a comment to the person saying they are out of order and even they shrug it off, they will think about later in the day as you are now.

meksar, that is good advice to sane people, but maybe w0rm is not dealing with a sane person.

anyway hugs might be the answer. charlie seems to know

28-04-2010, 01:46 PM	#1
w0rm Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: England Posts: 169	Dealing With Rude People Ok, I consider myself a nice, well-mannered guy. But some times, when faced with these obnoxious, grumpy rude people I feel something stirring inside of me where I just want to scream a big: "Fuck you!" Today I found myself in the position described above, whilst attending a Learn Direct centre where a member of the staff spoke to me like I was a worthless turd floating in the bowl of her toilet. I won't go into detail about what was said, but I just laughed and shrugged her remark off. When I had escaped the cesspit of a place I had time to reflect on the situation and had a moment where I thought of things that I feel would've been adequate retorts; wishing I would have said them. So, David Icke Forum, I ask you. How do you deal with these types of people? Is there a time and place for rudeness, or do you feel it's best to remain polite in such situations? Discuss!

28-04-2010, 01:50 PM	#3
newworldengineer Senior Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Caught up at the border of the living and the dead. Posts: 5,035	I go into Zen mode under those circumstances, and whatever happens, happens __________________ "Because we suggest a model of time whose mathematics dictate a built-in spiral structure, events keep gathering themselves into tighter and tighter spirals that lead inevitably to a final time. Like the center of a black hole, the final time is a necessary singularity, a domain or an event in which the ordinary laws of physics do not function" - Terrence Mckenna http://www.youtube.com/redherringmedia

28-04-2010, 01:52 PM	#5
lizzy Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,329	answer....."so what's your problem, please don't make it mine....g'morning, time for coffee .byeeeeeeee" edit.......and sorry u had that incident........it does seem to me that rudeness has now become some sort of badge of honesty or forthrightness.... v.sad really, hope your day goes much better now. __________________ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aJURN...layer_embedded ALL forums are either elite con-TROLLED or heavily infiltrated. http://www.jimstonefreelance.com/fukushima.html http://forum.davidicke.com/showthrea...a21#post502060 Last edited by lizzy; 28-04-2010 at 01:55 PM.

28-04-2010, 02:06 PM	#8
nofuture Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,520	I've often thought of wearing a badge saying 'If murder was legal would you still be alive?...' These psychic vampires drain you. __________________ If I hadn't seen such riches I could live with being poor

28-04-2010, 02:12 PM	#10
passing Inactive Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: UK Posts: 5,659	It hasn't done me many favours but I like to be just informal or jovial or provocative enough to let them see that the absurdity of their pompous 'status' is visible. Last edited by passing; 28-04-2010 at 02:13 PM.

28-04-2010, 01:49 PM	#2
oioioi Banned Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Evidently Chickentown Posts: 11,592	Lodge a complaint, let them sweat their 'position of power' that makes them feel relevant.

28-04-2010, 01:51 PM	#4
mr stoppitall Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 987	Destroy them with polite and precise vocabulary. Depends if they really want some though, some people are rude by default and I guess we have to be lenient with such automatons.