help!

[stardust_1]

Originally Posted by alexl1989

the law of attraction can bring the Armagedon if you don't really know what you want...u nead a clear mind in order to use the law of attraction...

Thumb up!!

[thecatsmeow]

[quote=stardust_1;1061027169]

Originally Posted by thecatsmeow

"You say these are negative emotions...I would question this...emotions should be observed and understood as there is a lesson in everything that happens to you. Emotions help you to understand yourself. "

I do believe in emotional guidance system. It's true that when you are feeling negative emotions such as FLUSTRATION, FEELING DOWN, DEPRESSION, BOREDOM etc something is not right! You are off track, maybe off your path,
or you're doing/thinking something wrong.

Sometimes we have a very complex way of thinking about the situation /perceiving it that's why it's hard to find a simple answer.


I mean the simple answer does exist, but we tend to dress it all up in elaborate theories with lots of arguments and after a while we get lost/ we lose the lesson, guidance....

I feel all these negative emotions becasue of the outside world, because what I want I cant get in THIS TOWN, because it's just not here...........
you cant drink from an empty glass.

If you have the urge to go to London then go...you are free to do as you please

No matter where you go; no matter what you do; the glass, be it full or empty or somewhere in between, is you
Go to a quiet place and be very still and 'listen' to the rythym of your heart as it beats in unison with your neighbour and friend and Mother Earth and the Universe and the all of life. Picture yourself in the outer reaches of space looking at our tiny planet and then, ask yourself what is important?

[rreeve]

Originally Posted by stardust_1

ON THE LAW OF ATTRACTION: I was doing my best to be positive, think positive etc for the past year.. And what happened?
I was moved to another department within my company. And I absolutely hate it! I've got sick stomach every morning. I feel down depressed. I come home every day feeling totally drained. Feel so out of place there... and lots of bad things happened since I started there.

Where did it all go wrong? is there a message in it?? that I should do what I wanted to do for a long long time, but never felt ready- move out of the town I truely hate and move to London, where I really want to be?

Are there any kind souls out there? If so please reply. I so need it tonight, feel so down

The newage teachings of the LOA is NEVER a good place to start because its pure materialistic and ego driven. There is some truth to the LOA but it's much MUCH deeper than just trying to manifest outcomes by manipulating your body emotions. Yes, it really is as shallow as that sounds.
There's no shortcuts to this I'm afraid but the sooner you start the sooner you will have a bliss filled life, but be prepared because this level of happiness might mean living your life with zero materialistic possestions. It's all about consciousness and meditation. Re-connecting to the source and getting to know your true self beyond the ego. Your ego will trick you and convince you, you can't be happy unless you have wealth and abundance but that is not true.

I know this isn't what people want to hear but the discovery of consciousness is the only honest path and when you finally get control of your reality you won't want to manifest a new car or a luxury home.

[fishonwheels]

Here's a model of "consciouness" from "intuitive insight" and others old ideas. Picture a big big ball with lots of hair. At the tip of each strand is an seperate, individual identity and at the center is the source. From center out is the flow of unmanifest to manifest, from most causal to least, and thus our ego intellect is mostly an observer, rationalizing what we see. Some traditions posit that other dimensions including the astral r actually "inner planes" to the surface, and meditation to be a going inward towards the center of the sphere. Successful use of loa can be theorized as ahaving a stronger relationship and alignment to the inner spheres.

Fear not, i will put my rational hat back on soon.

[stardust_1]

fuck, things are even worse now!!!
like i;m losing ground under my feet...and everything begins to colapse around me, im being kicked from all sides...

I will beapplying for jobs in London if I get one...it will mean something!
i believe that if it goes smooth...thats the right direction...
so if everything will be going ok...I will think ok...im on the right track.


i just have to do something...i cant go on like that!

[unicorny]

Originally Posted by stardust_1

fuck, things are even worse now!!!
like i;m losing ground under my feet...and everything begins to colapse around me, im being kicked from all sides...

I will beapplying for jobs in London if I get one...it will mean something!
i believe that if it goes smooth...thats the right direction...
so if everything will be going ok...I will think ok...im on the right track.


i just have to do something...i cant go on like that!

Go for it! sounds like you've got nothing to loose by taking the plunge, been down to London twice in the last month and both times made me think about this thread as i kept on being surprised at how engaging and friendly everyone was, perhaps my past experiences were through jade tinted spectacles (as opposed to the rose tinted ones i usually wear )

Good luck with it all Stardust

[stardust_1]

Originally Posted by unicorny

been down to London twice in the last month and both times made me think about this thread as i kept on being surprised at how engaging and friendly everyone was

Oh bless you Unicorny thanks a lot for sharing that with me.
I feel the same about London.
I know there will be people who don't like cities and they will be negative about London and its hassle and bussle.

But to me that's life, that's energy!

I need to focus on my own preference...i like cites hate being in a village...
just need a little bit of courage and self-belief.

we know what is good for us, but sometimes we listen to other people too much and their views...BUT they are not us! only we know what makes us happy...

they have different needs, priorities, paths....we have our own, and I need to learn to trust myself.

blessings for all

[resistance]

Originally Posted by stardust_1

Oh bless you Unicorny thanks a lot for sharing that with me.
I feel the same about London.
I know there will be people who don't like cities and they will be negative about London and its hassle and bussle.

But to me that's life, that's energy!

I need to focus on my own preference...i like cites hate being in a village...
just need a little bit of courage and self-belief.

we know what is good for us, but sometimes we listen to other people too much and their views...BUT they are not us! only we know what makes us happy...

they have different needs, priorities, paths....we have our own, and I need to learn to trust myself.

blessings for all

Funny that, I feel totally the opposite. I hate most cities. You may get to the city and say in a few years time, oh shit I hate this!

[tinyint]

Originally Posted by resistance

Funny that, I feel totally the opposite. I hate most cities. You may get to the city and say in a few years time, oh shit I hate this!

Me too, especially the new temples, the shopping malls...bad energy.
People run around like robots having fixed their eyes on the mobile phone.

They live!

[stardust_1]

Originally Posted by tinyint

Me too, especially the new temples, the shopping malls...bad energy.
People run around like robots having fixed their eyes on the mobile phone.

They live!

I respect your views BUT from experience:

small town= full of narrow minded people, small minded people, chavs, LIVE MEANS SLEEPING< GETTING WASTED<EATING<WATCHING EAST ENDERS<BACK TO THE SAME DAY BY DAY

[stardust_1]

a least in a city YOU HAVE A CHOICE
in small shite hole THERE'S NO CHOICE....
because all you get in MEDIOCRITY

dont mean to offend people from small towns, i am only refering to the town im in

[resistance]

Originally Posted by stardust_1

I respect your views BUT from experience:

small town= full of narrow minded people, small minded people, chavs, LIVE MEANS SLEEPING< GETTING WASTED<EATING<WATCHING EAST ENDERS<BACK TO THE SAME DAY BY DAY

That's not necessarily the case. Cities are made up of individual areas that resemble smaller towns, and some of those areas may be full of the same type of people from your town who you wish to escape from? I hate to say that about other peeps, but unfortunately it's true. I'm not trying to put you off from your dreams btw, just pointing out that the grass may not always be greener on the otherside? The motto of the story I guess is Choose wisely what area of the city you move to. There's some nice districts inside London, but there's also some slumy ghettos that I wouldn't live near even if the rent was free, let alone pay extortionate rates. I'm sure you know what you're doing though and will pick an area you feel comfortable with.

[stardust_1]

Originally Posted by resistance

That's not necessarily the case. Cities are made up of individual areas that resemble smaller towns, and some of those areas may be full of the same type of people from your town who you wish to escape from? I hate to say that about other peeps, but unfortunately it's true. I'm not trying to put you off from your dreams btw, just pointing out that the grass may not always be greener on the otherside? The motto of the story I guess is Choose wisely what area of the city you move to. There's some nice districts inside London, but there's also some slumy ghettos that I wouldn't live near even if the rent was free, let alone pay extortionate rates. I'm sure you know what you're doing though and will pick an area you feel comfortable with.

thanks Resistance i know you wish me well.
like you said i want to choose wisely, im not rushing into anything! i want to do it right, find the job, not any job, im not desperate, so i will take my time to find a job suitable for me...then find accomodation.

i have some friends in london, so i wont be totally alone so that's good

i dont want to end up in a worse situation then im in now, so it will take planning and preparation.

i believe in being in the flow. and if im meant to move to london at that time, a way will be made